You can’t manufacture synthetic love.
A famous relationship guru by the name of David DeAngelo once said, “Attraction isn’t a choice.” It would be nice to be so ridiculously attractive that you could just pick and choose any girl you wanted to have a long, lasting, and loving relationship with.
Unfortunately for most, it isn’t that easy. Sometimes, the ones you love don’t love you back… and it hurts more than getting stabbed in the chest. If you’re reading this right now, then you know how much it does hurt knowing that your girlfriend stopped caring about you.
It sucks. Just let it all out. It’s healthy.
But what if I told you that you could rewind the clock and go back to a much happier time when you ex girlfriend was madly in love with you? Well, it’s quite possible. In fact, not only is making your ex girlfriend falling in love with again very possible, but with the right guidance, you can even build a longer lasting relationship with her once you do get her back into your life.
Here are a few tips that will make your ex girlfriend fall in love with you again. And believe me, these tips work if you apply them properly and don’t make any mistakes along the way.
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Strategy #1 – Just Let Go Of Your Ex Girlfriend
It’s a tough pill to swallow right now, but if I know of any strategy that will help you get your ex girlfriend to love you again, then you must let go of her (for now).
When a woman chooses to break up with you, that means that she has fully lost that fire that she used to have with you – that special sort of sexual appeal. Once that spark and fire has faded, it’s gone. You have to accept that. There is no fuel that you can metaphorically throw into the fire when the fire isn’t even there anymore.
Letting go is extremely difficult, and there’s really no way to get around that… but as I said, the reality is that this girl has lost her feelings of passion and desire for you, and there’s nothing you can say or do immediately that will turn that switch back on. It’s a long process to reshape your ex girlfriend’s image of you and re-ignite her desire, but letting go is always the first step and a critical component to winning back her heart.
Strategy #2 – Start Fresh
You’re going to have to press the reset button on everything. That means you’re going to have to erase all the bad memories your ex girlfriend had with you and replace them with new ones – better ones.
There are several ways you can do this, but one of the most well known ways to do this is just to start acting more confident and independent. Once you ex sees the “new you,” all those negative traits that you were portraying directly after the break up will go away and she’ll begin to look at you in a more positive light.
You possess certain qualities and traits that made your ex fall in love with you to begin with, and those probably haven’t disappeared… but you need to slowly and carefully bring those traits back to the surface, where your ex girlfriend can’t help but notice them.
Caution: this is where many men go overboard and end up actually pushing their ex away further… so be careful, and don’t seem too eager to talk to your ex and show off your positive qualities. If you’re not sure what qualities attracted her and made her fall in love with you in the first place, Brad Browning’s e-book includes a comprehensive list of “attractive qualities” and advice on identifying what your ex loved about you, so it would be a worthwhile investment for you.
Strategy #3 – Start To Plant Emotional Seeds In Her Head
When you’ve sufficiently changed your ex girlfriends negative perception of you, it’s time to slowly send her psychological messages that you’re still that attractive, bold, and charismatic guy she remembered when you two first met.
You’ll need to show her a good time. Make her laugh. Tell her stories. Flirt with her. Seduce her.
Pretend that she is a girl that you just met and keep things feeling new because right now, your ex is sick of the old.
Strategy #4 – Sleep With Your Ex Girlfriend
As soon as you’re able to, have sex with your ex girlfriend. Once you’re able to achieve this, it’s on! You’ll have nearly no problem making the rest fall into place. To help you with this, here are some basic seduction tips that will help you achieve this goal…
- Start touching her. Be fun with it. Hold her hand.
- Be cool and relaxed.
- Laugh a lot with her and joke around.
- Look good (and smell good).
Remember that once you sleep with her, don’t assume that you’re back together. Just pretend you want to be friends with benefits at first and let her bring up the topic of getting back together.
Strategy #5 – Get As Much Good Advice As Possible
Be glad you found this website, as it contains a number of articles that will help you win back your ex girlfriend’s heart and make her fall for you again. But don’t end your hunt for quality advice here… make sure you keep reading and watching videos from experts so that you are fully prepared for all situations and so that you know exactly what to say when you begin to talk with your ex girlfriend again.
More resources are available from the links & resources page or throughout the articles section.
You can also get a more detailed description of how you can make your ex girlfriend fall in love with you again in this free video. In it, you’ll learn a few sneaky psychological tactics you can use to get past your ex girlfriend’s defenses and alter her subconscious feelings about you. Click here to view the full video.